Natia. 35. New York, Ny
2. What are your current dating goals? What are you looking for?
“I am not in the mood for dating, being new to the city I am really trying to stay focused and on my grind. I tried briefly but was quickly reminded that I don’t have the patience for foolery or time to entertain a concept that is designed to seek out people for a long term agreement…lol. I mean if I meet somebody cool, if not I promise not to lose any sleep. Right now my time is very very valuable and its not too much worth wasting it on.”
3. Why do you think you are currently single?
“I think I am single because I can be a lot to deal with sometimes. I have been told I am intimidating, whatever in the hell that means and I really haven’t been that interested in anybody to want to slap those labels on, ya know. I have liked a few people but not enough and vice versa. I also think that being chubby can create a smaller pool of necks turning. I feel I have much more than a waistline to offer so I quickly dismiss that idea, but I will never exclude it as a potential factor.. it’s just truth. I think my father ruined me and because not only did he teach me to be what I need to be for me, but he taught me game and bull shit. So essentially I don’t care to deal with or want to tolerate a lot of the ups and downs that being in a relationship could potentially include and kind of hang loose. And being single as long as I have, I have learned to enjoy time with myself. Some of my best times have been when it was just me. So I can say I am single for a lot of reasons, but who knows really. Maybe this is my fate and I have learned to be ok with that if that be the case because luckily I have a host of friends and family and some amazing siblings to lean on for companionship.”
Thank you Natia.