Love


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  Dating is exhausting. At the same time it can be liberating and beautiful. The thing that typically separates the two varying experiences is maturity, timing, and a person’s options. The most important thing, however, that determines whether or not a dating situation will be sugar or sh*t is COMMUNICATION, […]

Women Speak: Turn Offs, Exes, Real Dates, Heartbreak, and Why ...


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So I’ll preface this post by giving the disclaimer that I’m referring to courtships/relationships of women who are dating men wellllllll into their late 30s, 40s and so on. Think: 8 to 15+ age difference. So I’m not talking about those of you who are dating some 32 year old […]

When Bae Is Much Older Than You: The Pros And ...


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Why? Why would a man cheat on a good woman? Why do men… Good men, cheat on good women? There are plethora of reasons why people cheat… simply because everyone is different.  They have different morals, perspectives, vices, and a different understanding of things. BUT let me try to help […]

Guest Post : A Man’s Perspective On Why Men Cheat ...



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Dating for me in the last decade has been especially difficult. I have found that in adulthood, dating and relationships can, and are most times not what they appear to be. A true romantic at heart (although I am the primary facilitator and giver of the nurturing affection that go hand […]

Guest Post: Loving An Emotionally Unavailable Man


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“Women who are unable to sustain romantic relationships almost always had fathers who could not be counted on, or who were emotionally or physically unavailable when they were growing up. A loving mother is not enough to offset those difficulties. A missing father can mean a lifetime search for daddy […]

Dating With “Daddy Issues” …Can Your Relationship With Your Father ...


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(honestly I hate the P word, but I heard a similar phrase referenced in this same way on another male sponsored blog and I determined that for this post it’s necessary. The shock value is necessary.) Do you remember the old saying. .. “Friends make the best lovers”? No? Okay […]

Make Him See You In A Deeper Way Or He’ll ...



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As I look at my own life and scan a few Facebook posts that have become all too common, all I can think is that the majority of us are dating like complete idiots. Myself included. Well… the time is over for sugar coating. And everything I’m about to say, […]

Either You Can Be Weak Or You Can Grow The ...


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This post has the potential to go in several different directions… and while the title is pretty straight forward, I am willing to allow its contents to take me wherever the power of an epiphany decides to take me. I stated that as a form of a disclaimer but I hope […]

Should You Date New People Even If You’re Still In ...




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Those who truly know me understand how much I love the movie Love Jones. Actually, some of the people I click with the most share a passion for this movie. What can I say… it’s #Dope. And ironically, still very relevant today. .. 17 years after it’s initial release. There’s a factor […]

The Movie “Love Jones” & The Truth Of What Sucks ...