When you're the one who always has the crazy dating stories…

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Ladies, let’s talk for a minute. More specifically, SINGLE ladies. Let’s say, for the sake of example, that you’re dating this very attractive & promising guy. So far he is everything you look for in a man.. so you focus your attention on him. He’s who you’re most excited about […]

Dear Single Women: If You’re Dating Only One Man You’re ...

September 3, 2014 in Blog / General Posts tagged Dating / Exclusive / Men / Single / Women by TheSingleOneInTheGroup

Listen guys.. I get it! When taking an honest reflection of modern dating rituals I can sympathize with some of what you guys go through when it comes to women. Now I don’t claim to be “one of the guys”. Nor do I claim to know what you’re thinking or […]

Dear Single Men: If You’re Not Being CLEAR About Your ...

September 2, 2014 in Blog / General Posts tagged Dating / Honesty / Intentions / Men / Relationships / Women by TheSingleOneInTheGroup

“The Village” in Nyc is definitely one of my favorite places to frequent. It has a very cool visual appeal, bars are plentiful and it is just bursting with energy! Residents and visitors of the village add the most character to this place and for all of those reasons I […]

Scored A Date? Take Them To “Groove” In The Village

August 29, 2014 in Blog / Date Ideas & Venues / General Posts tagged Band / Bar / Date / Date Night / Happy Hour / Live Music / Nyc / The Village by TheSingleOneInTheGroup

So everyone (should) remember that episode on Sex In The City when Carrie & the girls talked about their awkward “Secret Single Behavior” that takes place when they are alone. Charlotte liked to stare at her pores in a mirror for hours. Miranda would put vaseline on her hands & […]

Secret Single Behaviors: The Weird Things You Do When You’re ...

August 28, 2014 in Blog / General Posts tagged Alone / Alone Time / Awkward / Private Moments / Single / Single Behavior / Weird by TheSingleOneInTheGroup

Don’t even act like you didn’t know that there were rules to this ish! lol And following up after a date is completely dependent as to WHICH date you are on, so don’t pay too much attention to the “First Date” part in the photo above. Unless you guys are already […]

What Are The Rules For “Following Up” After A Date?

August 26, 2014 in Blog / General Posts tagged Calling / Courtesy / Dating / Email / First Date / Follow Up / Second Date / Texting by TheSingleOneInTheGroup

Might as well go ahead and get this out of the way early right? lol Practically every person I know has some experience in dealing with this dilemma. Whether you’re the type who’s for it or against it, we can all say that we’ve been met with the decision at […]

Let’s Get Controversial: The “Sex On The 1st Date” Issue

August 25, 2014 in Blog / General Posts tagged Dating / Intimacy / Men / Respect / Sex / Women by TheSingleOneInTheGroup

This is one of those places you bring a date when you’re like: “I’m of a different breed. The person I date must be as well. Let me bring them to AfroPunk Fest to see them in this element.” If they dig it they are now your girlfriend/boyfriend & you […]

“So, Are You Into Alternative Black Music?”

August 24, 2014 in Blog / Date Ideas & Venues / General Posts tagged AfoPunk fest / AfroPunk / Alternative Music / August / Brooklyn / Date / Festival by TheSingleOneInTheGroup

My main goal is to make sure that this blog stays upbeat by keeping the “sad topics” at bay. No one wants to read a post that just drains the happiness out of you. But let’s be honest for a second. .. This blog could never be true to it’s […]

You Can Keep Them Out Of Your Life, But Your ...

August 24, 2014 in Blog / General Posts tagged Breakup / Dating / Ex / Heartbreak / Love / Missing Someone / Nostalgia / Relationships by TheSingleOneInTheGroup

Yes, I’ll admit. I’m a Brunch Fanatic. I mean what is better than “Breakfast Food” and Unlimited Mimosas? Let’s see —> Breakfast Food, Unlimited Mimosas and a Sexy Something sitting across from you at the table! lol But seriously, all “lol’s” aside. Bringing a prospective boo to brunch is a […]

Brunch and New Boo’s…

August 22, 2014 in Blog / Date Ideas & Venues / General Posts tagged Brunch / Date / Date Ideas / Mimosas by TheSingleOneInTheGroup

Those who truly know me understand how much I love the movie Love Jones. Actually, some of the people I click with the most share a passion for this movie. What can I say… it’s #Dope. And ironically, still very relevant today. .. 17 years after it’s initial release. There’s a factor […]

The Movie “Love Jones” & The Truth Of What Sucks ...

August 22, 2014 in Blog / General Posts tagged Advice / Chemistry / Dating / friends / Games / Love / Love Jones / Passion by TheSingleOneInTheGroup