3 Questions & A Moment To Reflect: “Seven”


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Seven. Early 30’s. Resides in Texas.

1. In a few sentences or less, please describe what you look for in a mate. Start from initial attraction & go from there.

“I like women who are honest, loyal and communicate well. I think there is something beautiful about every woman so her physical looks is not the most important thing to me. Although, I do like a woman with a nice shape & a pretty smile. It’s rare that I’ll approach a woman for no reason, although I have done it.. I usually wait for some type of hint from the woman.”

3. What are your current dating goals? What are you looking for?

“I’m what may be called an “alternative” relationship lifestyle, however the goals of any relationship rests on basic principles: honesty, loyalty, commitment, understanding, integrity & communication. Yeah, I needs all of that and if at any time those things are compromised, I’ma be talkin’ some shit. The only reason Ima talk shit though is because I won’t compromise the pillars of the relationship.”

4. Why do you think you are currently single?

“I was told that if you ain’t married, you’re single. So from that perspective, I’m not married because I think how we view marriage today is something that’s not in tune with nature. At just a brief glance in known human history we see that a man always had as many women as he could take care of….until christianity took over the world.”

I asked Seven to add anything additional that he felt like mentioning. This is what he said:

“I think the “big deal” with relationships comes down to this: money & sex. Here’s why and I’m sure you can agree with the statement I’m about to make. I have never seen a person’s morals, ethics, responsibility or respectability go out the window quicker than when money or sex is involved. But here’s the cold part, we raise our lil girls and teach them, “don’t mess with any ole joe.. make sure he got something going for himself. Ya know, a good education or a good job. Some benefits and a 401k.” In other words, don’t be with a broke man. We teach our boys, ” Son, you shouldn’t just be laying up with that woman. Shacking is against God. Stop your fornication, get yourself together & marry that young woman.” In other words, get your money right so sex is not wrong.”

Thank you Seven.

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