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  Serious Question. Say for instance you met this cutie and decided to have a lil’ Netflix and Chill date at your place.  Would you let him/her come into your house and just start smashing and breaking things… stealing your valuables and rearranging your furniture just because they’re cute and […]

Are You Protecting Your “Energy” When It Comes To Sex ...

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As you guys all know by now, I’m not officially “The Single One In The Group” anymore. Yep… somebody saw greatness and bagged ya girl! *insert tongue out emoji here* As a result though, every now and then I LOVE posting pictures of me and my boyfriend… or even just […]

#RelationshipGoalsAreBullsh*t

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We know… your friends love you. They truly do. And your family members will drop whatever they’re doing at the first sound of a crack in your voice when you call them after a break up like “Can you talk?” . And even, at some points, they just might have some […]

Why Relationships And Seeing A Therapist Go Hand In Hand

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  Dating is exhausting. At the same time it can be liberating and beautiful. The thing that typically separates the two varying experiences is maturity, timing, and a person’s options. The most important thing, however, that determines whether or not a dating situation will be sugar or sh*t is COMMUNICATION, […]

Women Speak: Turn Offs, Exes, Real Dates, Heartbreak, and Why ...

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So I’ll preface this post by giving the disclaimer that I’m referring to courtships/relationships of women who are dating men wellllllll into their late 30s, 40s and so on. Think: 8 to 15+ age difference. So I’m not talking about those of you who are dating some 32 year old […]

When Bae Is Much Older Than You: The Pros And ...

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  I’ll start this post off with a very significant disclaimer: My views don’t apply to every man out there who had an issue with Lemonade, My views don’t represent every woman out there who watched it and it’s aftermath, and My views are a reflection of my own personal […]

Have Some Men Dissed Beyonce’s “Lemonade” Project Because They Fear ...

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Honestly, it’s about time that we’ve done a “book club”  type of set up here at The Single One In The Group. And it makes perfect sense that I would choose such a striking title for our first book to discuss. Of course this is mostly for the ladies out […]

1st Book Club Meetup To Discuss “Men Don’t Love Women ...

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  If you have ever been confused about something that a man Did, DIDN’T DO (side eye), or even something that they have Said then you have at least one thing in common with like… 99% of women, past and present. In fact… you are probably a woman who is, […]

Men Speak: Turn Offs, Sidechicks, Settling Down, and Why Dating ...

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  Who wouldn’t want to take 8 days to explore all of the beautiful culture, sights and delicious food that exists within Paris and Rome? Oh and did I mention that you’ll be doing so with a group of fun, awesome travelers! If you are one of those who would […]

We’re Going To Paris & Rome In July 2017 & ...

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“Women who are unable to sustain romantic relationships almost always had fathers who could not be counted on, or who were emotionally or physically unavailable when they were growing up. A loving mother is not enough to offset those difficulties. A missing father can mean a lifetime search for daddy […]

Dating With “Daddy Issues” …Can Your Relationship With Your Father ...

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(honestly I hate the P word, but I heard a similar phrase referenced in this same way on another male sponsored blog (S/O to the “Black Girls Are Easy” blog) and I determined that for this post it’s necessary. The shock value is necessary.) Do you remember the old saying. […]

Make Him See You In A Deeper Way Or He’ll ...

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